Posts Tagged ‘creativity’

Engaging the spirit

Thursday, August 5th, 2010

Here is the image that I hold inside:

A young person is held down, under water.  They struggle, but only half-heartedly.  They keep struggling, getting more and more scared and close to panic. More struggle, more fear, more panic.

They start to get pissed off and more energetic in their effort to escape.

They’re realizing this is not a game.

But, they are still held down.

Their effort increases, as does their aggression.  But, it’s not enough.

Finally, when they realize they are about to die, they do whatever it takes to get free.

Their action stops being soft and hopeful, and becomes direct, assertive, and fierce.

Their spirit engages. They realize that they have to fight for something they care about – in this case, their life.  And what it takes to have their life is being direct, assertive, and fierce.

It is a moment where they stop living in a considered way.  It is a transition away from being soft, indecisive, and soft/nice.

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Today, I am wondering about how to do this with teens in today’s world.

I know many young people who live in a considered way.  They feel trapped, want to bust out, want to be courageous, but just can’t bring themselves to do it.

How can we help them?

Mayor’s visit! Wow. But it’s even better…way better

Monday, May 24th, 2010

Mayor Sam Adams’s visit was amazing, but the beauty of what these kids and their teachers created is in the details.  Check this out:

Today I am really proud of my wife.  She teaches a 2nd-3rd grade class at the Opal Charter School of the Portland Children’s Museum.  This year they have been studying what it takes to make a neighborhood.  The work they are doing coincides with work happening in the city of Portland, where we live.

The students call the place they have created “The Neighborhood”!

Portland has just completed a 30 year plan and is embarking on a new 25 year plan, called the Portland Plan.  There have been many public meetings around the city to get people’s input.  The meetings are run by the mayor of Portland.

Today, the Mayor visited my wife’s classroom for an hour and talked with the kids about their work.

How cool.

Better..way better (and imagination) begins here!!

But, with all the fireworks of the day, there was something my wife shared about how the project began that I think is absolutely profound and begins to throw light on the real story.

“The reason we continued with this project, is because right at the beginning we noticed that the kids treated each other differently in the neighborhood than they did in our classroom.”

She went on to explain that kids all had a character in the neighborhood.  They became that character when they played there, and their characters who were mean to each other in the classroom worked together with each other in the neighborhood.  Kids who only played with certain other kids in the classroom, played and worked with everyone in the neighborhood.  Kids who struggled to be creative in the classroom, were able to be creative in the neighborhood.

Their neighborhood became an imaginary place where the kids could be who they really want to be (i.e. beneath the facade & struggle of who they have to be to survive on a day to day basis).  In the neighborhood they could:

  • use their natural abilities
  • all be friends (or at least support each other)
  • be generous and kind
  • treat each other the way they really want to treat other kids
  • escape the place where they had to defend themselves and protect their vulnerabilities

I wonder if you are reading this with your jaw dropping, because every time I write it or read it, I am astounded.  And I start to cry.

What I would call it is an experience of Wholeness.  The neighborhood has become a place where the students can go to play – and while there they get to imagine, feel, experience, and see what is possible for their life.

Here is another example:  the other day, the class had some explore (free) time.  They wanted to go visit the neighborhood, but the teachers were worried about so many people being in such a small place, so they suggested dividing the class up.  The kids objected – how can we play there if not everyone is there?  They didn’t want to go in small groups.  They only wanted to go with everyone in the class.  Everyone needed to be included.

Wow.  Wow.  Wow.  And more Morgan tears.

Not enough young people (let alone us adults) have this kind of experience…

and the implications are significant…so lets imagine them!

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